Entertaining the Kids’ Friends in the Cooler Months
During the summer, our yard and those of our neighbors were filled to the brim with kids on a regular basis. If my children wanted to invite a friend or a group of friends over, I was perfectly fine with that. They could run around to their hearts’ content outside, and I could supply them with popsicles and lemonade, and they’d be happy. They could play baseball or go fishing at the local pond or play hide and seek. Meanwhile, I could sit in the relatively quiet house and simply glance out the window occasionally.
Now that it’s getting cooler, though, and the kids don’t want to play outside quite so much, it’s getting to be more of a hassle to let them have friends over. I can tolerate a couple of friends for a couple of hours, but it gets on my nerves to have a big group of kids running through the house and making a lot of noise. Still, it doesn’t seem fair to tell kids that they can’t have company. Here are some ideas on being hospitable to the kids’ friends during the part of the year when everyone tends to stay indoors:
- Give them their own space. If you have a garage or a basement, see if there’s a way to clear out a portion to give the kids their own space to goof off. An area rug, a couple of couches, a television and some game consoles can make even an unfinished basement more appealing than a living room with a grimacing mom. Get your kids involved in making it a friendly place: Let them put a coat of paint on the walls and choose new lighting fixtures, and have them help you move piles of extra stuff to the edges of the room.
- Invest in some quiet things to do. Stocking up on puzzles, craft supplies and board games might inspire some quiet activity. This isn’t really a guarantee, of course, and chances are that the kids might be occupied for a half hour and then succumb to shrieks and bouncing around, but it might get you at least some peace and quiet.
- Make agreements with other parents. While summertime playdates might tend to be open-ended due to their casual nature, this might become tedious in the winter months. Make sure that there are clear drop-off and pick-up times. Also, don’t let your house become the one where everyone congregates all the time… make sure that other parents pick up some of the hosting slack!
- Set up some rules. Just because they’re antsy, doesn’t mean that you should let them run wild or damage any of your belongings. Don’t be afraid to tell them if something isn’t allowed.
- If you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em! Have a dance contest with them, help them build an obstacle course, or put on a movie that you don’t mind seeing and turn up the volume way too loud. If you’re having fun, the time that they’re there may fly by.
The change in weather doesn’t have to mean that you have to be cooped up with a bunch of rowdy kids, nor that your kids can’t have friends over. With a bit of compromise and forethought, you can let your kids extend hospitality to other children and stay sane at the same time!
This remins me of when my parents put together a puzzle and then glued it to a piece of wood, and then they hanged it in to my room and it reminded me of the fun time. This would be great for my kids and a memory that they may cheerish.
It’s good to let children have balance in everything. Letting them spending time with parents, kids with same age group and alone help them develop a lot of skills as they grow.
nice tips! i am surely gonna ponder upon these as i get really pissed when my sister visits with her kids!
love this post
Excellent tips. There are ways to keep them happy and occupied during the cooler months. Video games also keep them happy!
My daughter loves dance parties..We have spontaneous ones all the time. The rest are all great ideas too!
Those are some very good ideas, I like the obstacle course one. We have a very small home and the kids do get cabin fever so these tips ought to help, thanks!
These are great ideas! Thank you! My house is always the gathering place for my kid’s friends. I don’t mind because then I know where my kids are 🙂
One friend’s mom bought plaster ornaments for us to paint and some acrylic paints. That was one of the most memorable days ever!
great ideas. I think its a good idea to get with other moms to discuss and maybe set up a winter schedule for visits and activities
Great ideas,thank you!!
Great ideas. Iam the one they usually want to play with. my husband works long hours so he is sleep alot
Thanx for the suggestions 🙂
I really like the idea of arranging get together’s with other parents. Sounds like it would be good for the kids and the parents!
all great ideas. I will have to keep this in mind when my son makes some friends.